Why Clothing Sizes Are a Myth: Find What Fits, Not What the Tag Says
If you’ve ever taken multiple sizes of the same type of clothing into a fitting room, only to find that none of them fit quite right, you’re not alone. The truth is, clothing sizes are not an exact science. From one brand to another, and even from one style to the next, fit can vary dramatically. That’s why it’s time to stop stressing about the number on the tag and start embracing clothing that makes you feel confident, comfortable, and completely yourself.
The Inconsistency of Sizing
Clothing sizes are anything but universal. A size 18 in one brand may fit like a size 14 in another, and even two garments labeled with the same size from the same brand can feel entirely different based on fabric, cut, or stretch. There is no standardized sizing system across the fashion industry, which means that every company has its own set of measurements and guidelines.
Historically, sizing has changed significantly over the decades. What was once a size 12 in the 1950s might now be considered a size 6 or 8 due to a practice called vanity sizing. Brands adjust their sizing to appeal to shoppers, making them feel like they are fitting into smaller numbers even when their bodies haven’t changed. This creates confusion and frustration, especially for plus-size shoppers who already have limited options in traditional retail stores.
Fabric, Fit, and Feel Matter More Than the Size Tag
A big reason why sizing is so unreliable is the variation in fabric, style, and construction. A structured, non-stretch denim pant will fit very differently from a soft, stretchy jegging, even if both are labeled the same size. Likewise, a flowy maxi dress may feel loose and forgiving, while a fitted pencil dress in the same size could feel snug.
Instead of focusing on the number on the tag, start paying attention to how a garment feels on your body. Is it comfortable? Does it highlight your favorite features? Do you feel confident wearing it? These are the things that truly matter. The right clothing should complement your body, not the other way around.
Shop for What You Love, Not for a Number
Since sizes are unreliable, the best way to shop is to choose pieces that catch your eye first. Look for colors, prints, and styles that excite you. Hold the item up, feel the fabric, and consider how it will drape on your body. Try things on when possible, and if you’re shopping secondhand, don’t be afraid to browse multiple sections or sizes—your perfect fit might not be where you expect it.
At Billie & Lulu’s, we believe that every body is beautiful, and we encourage you to dress for joy, not for a number. Our collection of plus-size secondhand clothing spans a range of styles, fabrics, and fits, giving you the freedom to explore what feels best on you. No matter what the tag says, if you love it and it makes you feel amazing, it’s the right choice.
So go ahead—embrace the pieces that make you feel comfortable, confident, and sexy. Because at the end of the day, the number on the tag means nothing compared to how you feel in your clothes.